Comments on: Is Having Cyber Sex Cheating if You are Married? http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married/ Internet Safety, Windows Updates, Internet News, and More Sat, 21 Nov 2009 21:25:20 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: Simply Indonesia http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married/#comment-1151062 Simply Indonesia Thu, 12 Nov 2009 04:36:16 +0000 http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married#comment-1151062 It's not good, but it's not cheating. It’s not good, but it’s not cheating.

]]> By: Katy http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married/#comment-1148705 Katy Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:15:24 +0000 http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married#comment-1148705 When you enter into a marriage, it is you and another person promising to stay faithful and be with just you for the rest of your life. The breakdown of marriage is the reason behind so many troubled children today, since sex is regarded as just a physical deed to feel good. Cyber sex is no different. As a victim of the cybering spouse, I can vouch that it makes the other person feel worthless, violated, and it turns into an emotional rollercoaster. If you are not OK being in a monogamous, respectful, trusting relationship, then why would you get married? There is a major difference between porn and cybersex...porn is just watched and has no attachment. When cybering you control the situation to go where you want it to go, which is personal. With the breakdown of marriage comes the breakdown of society. When you enter into a marriage, it is you and another person promising to stay faithful and be with just you for the rest of your life. The breakdown of marriage is the reason behind so many troubled children today, since sex is regarded as just a physical deed to feel good. Cyber sex is no different. As a victim of the cybering spouse, I can vouch that it makes the other person feel worthless, violated, and it turns into an emotional rollercoaster. If you are not OK being in a monogamous, respectful, trusting relationship, then why would you get married? There is a major difference between porn and cybersex…porn is just watched and has no attachment. When cybering you control the situation to go where you want it to go, which is personal. With the breakdown of marriage comes the breakdown of society.

]]> By: Someone http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married/#comment-1119565 Someone Tue, 15 Sep 2009 05:52:03 +0000 http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married#comment-1119565 I believe it is the same as porn, so its a bit more personalized...as long as their is no emotional attachment, then what is the difference between watching a porn and getting off, or cybering to get off? If it starts to interfear with your marraige than, yes, it can be a problem, but if it doesnt...its just words, its just fantasy...just like a porn... I believe it is the same as porn, so its a bit more personalized…as long as their is no emotional attachment, then what is the difference between watching a porn and getting off, or cybering to get off? If it starts to interfear with your marraige than, yes, it can be a problem, but if it doesnt…its just words, its just fantasy…just like a porn…

]]> By: myk8ts http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married/#comment-1022408 myk8ts Thu, 14 May 2009 13:23:50 +0000 http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married#comment-1022408 Yes, I do believe that cyber sex is cheating if married especially when you are doing it with the same person all the time. I would rather accept a one night stand or cyber sex with a random person than with a constant one. Like most comments before, emotional attachments is harder to resist than physical, for the latter, one can just take a shower and be done with it-body heat. Yes, I do believe that cyber sex is cheating if married especially when you are doing it with the same person all the time. I would rather accept a one night stand or cyber sex with a random person than with a constant one. Like most comments before, emotional attachments is harder to resist than physical, for the latter, one can just take a shower and be done with it-body heat.

]]> By: Bryan http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married/#comment-1012772 Bryan Fri, 24 Apr 2009 16:52:41 +0000 http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married#comment-1012772 I'm not married or in a relationship at the moment, but the only real difference between cybersex and "real" sex is physical presence -- so YES, it is cheating. I’m not married or in a relationship at the moment, but the only real difference between cybersex and “real” sex is physical presence — so YES, it is cheating.

]]> By: SARAH DARNELL http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married/#comment-1012110 SARAH DARNELL Thu, 23 Apr 2009 13:09:27 +0000 http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married#comment-1012110 even looking upon another with lust is cheating! ENUFF SAID even looking upon another with lust is cheating! ENUFF SAID

]]> By: shane http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married/#comment-954725 shane Sun, 01 Feb 2009 22:06:22 +0000 http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married#comment-954725 Yes I do believe having cyber sex is cheating in fact I left my wife for it I condemn anybody who does this stuff it hurts terribly I found out this was going on before I got married and I found the emails and instants messages I found one on july 1 and I got married june 28 of last year! Needless to say my marriage only lasted about three months if that Yes I do believe having cyber sex is cheating in fact I left my wife for it I condemn anybody who does this stuff it hurts terribly I found out this was going on before I got married and I found the emails and instants messages I found one on july 1 and I got married june 28 of last year! Needless to say my marriage only lasted about three months if that

]]> By: jackie http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married/#comment-735868 jackie Thu, 31 Jul 2008 12:34:15 +0000 http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married#comment-735868 Actually I met my husband on an internet sex site and we "did" each other online. Now let me say this - because we are in different countries we have had to be seperated for a small part of the time and I have found that he did continue to have internet sex online after we were married and as a matter of fact so did I. Once we are together permanately then all cybersex will cease for both of us. I could consider this cheating as it does involve an emotional attachment. My husband deleted all his online contacts except for one who he has told me about and they no longer have cypersex she knows about us and that we are married I know this because I saw the chat between them. My internet connection and I have continued to have internet sex during my seperation and he also knows I got married and he knows it will cease when my husband and I are togeter even though I have become emotionally attacted to this person I do want to give all my energy to my husband and not someone online. So for the future if ether one of us becomes reinvolved with our internet connections or make new ones then YES it will be considered cheating! This is something that needs to be addressed with your spouses and talked about, come to an agreement with each other if it is consenual then it can be monitored by each other. Communication is the key - if you both "get off" on this then go for it as it might enhance your own sex life - I do NOT consider it cheating if you both are in agreement. So there are two side to this internet sex thing...it can go either way as long as it does not take away from your own sexual satisfaction with your partner. Actually I met my husband on an internet sex site and we “did” each other online. Now let me say this - because we are in different countries we have had to be seperated for a small part of the time and I have found that he did continue to have internet sex online after we were married and as a matter of fact so did I. Once we are together permanately then all cybersex will cease for both of us. I could consider this cheating as it does involve an emotional attachment. My husband deleted all his online contacts except for one who he has told me about and they no longer have cypersex she knows about us and that we are married I know this because I saw the chat between them. My internet connection and I have continued to have internet sex during my seperation and he also knows I got married and he knows it will cease when my husband and I are togeter even though I have become emotionally attacted to this person I do want to give all my energy to my husband and not someone online. So for the future if ether one of us becomes reinvolved with our internet connections or make new ones then YES it will be considered cheating! This is something that needs to be addressed with your spouses and talked about, come to an agreement with each other if it is consenual then it can be monitored by each other. Communication is the key - if you both “get off” on this then go for it as it might enhance your own sex life - I do NOT consider it cheating if you both are in agreement. So there are two side to this internet sex thing…it can go either way as long as it does not take away from your own sexual satisfaction with your partner.

]]> By: unacknowledged http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married/#comment-609264 unacknowledged Sun, 01 Jun 2008 15:55:21 +0000 http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married#comment-609264 Having an online affair CAN be more damaging than a one night stand. I say this because if you have a one night stand, it happends and it is done. An online affair that lasts for a while, a month, two months or longer is far more damaging to the relationship. As time progresses in that type of relationship, your spouse will open up more and more and will eventually lead to real life phone calls, picture swapping, sending of gifts and ultimatly, the meet-up. This happened to me when I went away for three months last summer. My wife was talking to a guy online for about 18 hours a day, flirting, turned into having all out sex in chat and in Second Life. They called each other swapped pictures and talked about meeting up. It was so bad when I returned home and found out about it, my wife would be on her laptop and when I came near her, she would close the laptop down. It is password protected too so I had no idea what she was saying and doing. Anyone who thinks online affaris are not cheating, has not had it happen to them. I would have much rather my wife had a one night stand and been done with it. But now, all I can think about is how she could spend so much time with the guy online talking about practically nothing but sex and wanting to meet up in real life all the while she was totally repulsed by me. Having an online affair CAN be more damaging than a one night stand. I say this because if you have a one night stand, it happends and it is done. An online affair that lasts for a while, a month, two months or longer is far more damaging to the relationship. As time progresses in that type of relationship, your spouse will open up more and more and will eventually lead to real life phone calls, picture swapping, sending of gifts and ultimatly, the meet-up.

This happened to me when I went away for three months last summer. My wife was talking to a guy online for about 18 hours a day, flirting, turned into having all out sex in chat and in Second Life. They called each other swapped pictures and talked about meeting up. It was so bad when I returned home and found out about it, my wife would be on her laptop and when I came near her, she would close the laptop down. It is password protected too so I had no idea what she was saying and doing.

Anyone who thinks online affaris are not cheating, has not had it happen to them. I would have much rather my wife had a one night stand and been done with it. But now, all I can think about is how she could spend so much time with the guy online talking about practically nothing but sex and wanting to meet up in real life all the while she was totally repulsed by me.

]]> By: queenofthedamned http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married/#comment-365439 queenofthedamned Tue, 26 Feb 2008 19:59:57 +0000 http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/is-having-cybersex-cheating-if-you-are-married#comment-365439 take it,that is? take it,that is?

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